Have you exhorted?

• to encourage, to embolden, to cheer, to advise.. to excite or to give strength, spirit or courage.
• to encite by words of advice; to animate or urge by arguments to a good deed or to any laudable conduct or course of action.
• to advice; to warn
• or...
• yelling?
• angry talk?
• fear?
• guilt trips?
• threat management?

• or...
• hurting
• hitting
• punching
• anger
• mentally?
• physically?
• spiritually?

• or...
• "keep your commitments to the world even AFTER you learn how wrong they are!"
• "ladies - "prepare for a career or a failed marriage 'just in case.'"
• boys - "learn to follow our wife and let her take the helm of the ship!"

• II Thessalonians 3:7-9 - For yourselves know how ye ought to follow us: for we behaved not ourselves disorderly among you;  Neither did we eat any man's bread for nought; but wrought with labour and travail night and day, that we might not be chargeable to any of you: Not because we have not power, but to make ourselves an ensample unto you to follow us. Not because we have not power, but to make ourselves an ensample unto you to follow us.

Here are the real ones...

Be read unto all!

• I Thessalonians 5:27
• I charge you by the Lord that this epistle be read unto all the holy brethren.

• I Timothy 1:3,4
• As I besought thee to abide still at Ephesus, when I went into Macedonia, that thou mightest charge some that they teach no other doctrine, Neither give heed to fables and endless genealogies, which minister questions, rather than godly edifying which is in faith: so do.

• I Timothy 1:18,19b
• This charge I commit unto thee, son Timothy, according to the prophecies which went before on thee, that thou by them mightest war a good warfare; Holding faith, and a good conscience;

• I Timothy 5:7
• And these things give in charge, that they may be blameless.

• I Timothy 5:21
• I charge thee before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, and the elect angels, that thou observe these things without preferring one before another, doing nothing by partiality.

• I Timothy 6:17-21
• Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy; That they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate;  Laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life.  O Timothy, keep that which is committed to thy trust, avoiding profane and vain babblings, and oppositions of science falsely so called: Which some professing have erred concerning the faith. Grace be with thee. Amen.

• II Timothy 4:1-5
• I charge thee therefore before God, and the Lord Jesus Christ, who shall judge the quick and the dead at his appearing and his kingdom; Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine. For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears; And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables. But watch thou in all things, endure afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, make full proof of thy ministry.