• Compromise?
• Put out a false testimony from ourselves when we still know what is right?
• Be a hypocrite to those who know we know what is right?
• Not try to grow in judgment?
• etc.

• evil communications?
• those who won't endure sound doctrine?
• those who preach a false doctrine?
• those who hurt, abuse, contend, strive, etc.?
• those who try to take away your peace attempts?

• No!
• Note: that if it not be possible - or if doesn't lie within you - then Paul says to avoid, have no company with, etc.
• Do we hide behind charity, kindness, etc. and not step up as Paul tells us to in the 'hard' situations?
• Do we hide behind not wanting for meat to destroy the work of God?
• Or are we willing to:
• Discover; Decide; Depart; Despise; Destroy; Deny; Prayer; Tears; Grace & Truth; Avoid foolish and unlearned questions, genealogies, contentions, etc. (unprofitable, vain, gender strifes and more questions, etc.); Follow after the things made for peace, may edify one another; Speak those things which become sound doctrine; Avenge not; Mercy; Charity*, (unfeigned faith, pure heart, good conscience or just vain jangling); Hold fast; Endure hardness; Consider what Paul says; Bear the infirmities of the weak; be gentle; Study; Be apt to teach; In meekness instruct those that oppose themselves; Please not your own self; Longsuffering; Patience; Maintain good works; Continue in the things thou has learned and has been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; Reprove; Speak. and exhort. and rebuke with all authority; Be thou partaker of the afflictions of the gospel; Avoid*, etc.; Deliver to Satan...
• *Charity - suffereth long; is kind; envieth not; vaunteth not itself; is not puffed up; doth not behave itself unseemly; seeketh not her own; is not easily provoked; thinketh no evil; rejoiceth not in iniquity; rejoiceth in the truth; never faileth - but today, is not 'above' a rightly divided KJB - follow after charity, but rather that ye may prophesy!
• If your heart is not pure, if you do not have a good conscience and you do not have an unfeigned faith, then you are just vain jangling when you talk about charity to someone else.
• If you have to 'tell' someone you are offering a charitable situation, then it isn't charity!
• Charity towards others is between you and God!
• **avoid, withdraw from such, not strive, neither give heed, purge, reject, be not partakers, mark, note them, have no company, put away from yourselves, cast off, have no fellowship, etc.

Little mentions of being 'kind' to others in the Gospels, as far as the word 'kind' goes, anyway.

• Luke 6:35,36

• I Corinthians 13:4
• keeping in mind I Timothy 1:5 and the vain jangling that exists when most folks brag and preach on their charity!
• II Corinthians 1-13
• It seems it is all about Paul, but then in verse 13 we see that all is also applicable to us!
• Ephesians 2:1-7
• Ephesians 4:29-32
• Colossians 3:12
• Titus 3:1-7 with emphasis on verse 4

• II Peter 1:7
• III John 1:6
• Jude 12